Happy New Year everyone!

Hair salon names: 'Brownie' 'Psych Beauty News'

The other day we saw a nicer toyota car that's model on the back read 'Grand Saloon'.
I love Japan!

Big shout out to Josie Manning for getting baptized! We are so proud of you. We miss you and wish we could have been there, but that's what we're doing here. Helping people learn about Jesus Christ and then they make the decision to be like Him and be baptized just like you did.
Another big shout out to all of you who finished yet another semester of school! Omedito gozaimasu! And you're onto the next! Gambate ne!

We are doing fine. I hope your Christmas was wonderful. I hear it wasn't exactly white. Maybe you'll be lucky and it will start to snow now and continue until June, sort of like last year. Nagoya doesn't get much snow but some of our areas in the Kanazawa and Nagano zones get pounded with it. It's wet, wet snow. It's so heavy I don't know how they shovel it. No central heat in our houses make it feel like the North Pole though. My shampoo and hand soap that are gels, get so cold you can hardly get them out of the bottle. I had a drink of water out of the faucet in the bathroom and got a brain freeze, I'm not joking. The water is so cold when you wash your hands you can't get the soap off. Each room has it's own heater and you only turn on the rooms you go into because of the cost (nuclear power--remember Fukushima), so we run from room to room. I can't quite figure it out. The Japanese people love the heat. Church in the summer is so warm. Everything is so warm. It just doesn't make sense to me.

This is the first year in 34 years that we didn't have at least one of our children with us at Christmas. I really worried that it would be a hard year. It sort of started out that way until I decided I needed a Christmas project---and I found it---a 'Kimono quilt' top. Our office couple the Oldroyd's 50th Wedding Anniversary was on the 15th of December. We decided to have a surprise party for them. Sister Oldroyd and I had seen a beautiful pieced 'Kimono' quilt. We both wanted to make one. Of course when I first saw it I thought I'd make one for everyone I knew. Then I made one of the blocks---I decided maybe I'd just make a pillow instead. Sister Oldroyd kept saying she wondered if Sister Grames in Tokyo would make her one if she paid her. I knew she really wanted one so I decided to take the leap. I have been collecting fabric for it since July, but because I'm a good procrastinator, I started on the blocks around the 10th of December! It made me so happy to sit at my kitchen table with my Christmas music turned up, sewing all day and night. For the first time this season it felt like Christmas at the Baird's. All the time I was sewing (and picking our the mistakes) I could imagine her face when she received it. I knew she would be so happy. I was so excited. She also loves my collection of chopstick rests. I had all the companionships buy one chopstick rest. They had wrapped them up and written notes. Elder Jessop had put together an anniversary video with pictures of their lives and family with the help of their children. I wished you all could have been there for the surprise. Their faces shown with pure joy! It was so incredibly sweet and tender. They loved the quilt top and the chopstick rests and especially the notes and people who attended. I will never forget it.

We visited all of our zones and our district the 21st through the 24th. We had a Christmas devotional in each area. Elder Jessop one of our office Elders put together some great videos and put them on a DVD (I work that poor boy to death. I told him his official title is 'APW' Assistant to the President's wife. He goes home in July and I've threatened to extend him another year). It was a very special time for us all. We have the most incredible missionaries.

We still see amazing things happen almost on a daily basis. I'll share a couple:
Elder Gottfredson is an amazing young man. He literally opens his mouth and talks to everyone he sees. One day in Kanazawa, he was crossing the street at the light and handed a man coming towards him, a pamphlet about the church. He said hello but got no response, the man just grabbed it. Elder Gottfredson thought , "oh well", and went on, like I say, he just keeps going, he's so positive. The next Sunday at church the man showed up. No one knew who he was. Elder G. looked at him and said he thought it was the grumpy guy he'd given a pamphlet to. Sure enough, it was. The man said that he had been praying for 2 years ever since his son had died, for some kind of help and peace. He had read the pamphlet and knew that his prayers had been answered.

Elder Ito, another sugoi missionary (he will totally be a leader in Japan in the future) found a wallet. He called the man and told him he had it and arranged a place and time to return it. Elder Ito met with him and gave him a Book of Mormon along with the wallet. They had a great conversation and the man came to church and is now an investigator.

The Book of Mormon changes lives. I love in Ether 12:41 how Moroni tells us to "Seek this Jesus". I know that Joseph Smith did not make Moroni up. He's real. He lived. He talked with Jesus face to face just like he says in Ether chapter 12. You do get closer to God by reading this book. It's makes us happier, more peaceful, stronger, easier for others to love.... and hopeful. I am so grateful for this opportunity. It has opened my eyes wider to what's important in life.

I love you all.
Happy New Year!
Ja mata ne.

Sister Baird, Bonnie, mom or grandma

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hair salon names: 'Dog Tails' and 'Jet Party Hair'.

I know in America this is a big holiday week. I miss all the bustle of the holidays there. We have a different kind of bustle here. We will have a small gathering of nine at our home, and of course Tommy Turkey will be our featured guest. I had him flown in special. We also have the woman the girls and I met in the fabric store. Thanks to our dendo (proselyting) baby! Good job Nora. Unfortunately, there will be no Bingo again this year, and Weslee, I'm with you on the bingo, it's tradition.

First of all I must apologize to the mountains of Japan. In my last letter I told you they weren't very colorful. I was sorely mistaken, it just happens a little later here. We were in the mountains of Matsumoto, Nagano District last weekend and they were absolutely stunning. Red, yellow, orange and green. No wonder I love fall! Those are all my favorite colors. I decided that the Lord made fall so spectacular as to make up for the bleakness of winter.

We spent last week in Korea for the Asia North Area Seminar. It was wonderful. We learned so much from Elder's Stevenson, Ringwood and Aoyagi. I loved Korea! We saw the most incredible cultural dancing show at the Korea House. At the end of the performance they came down in the audience and pulled three people up on the stage. One of those happened to be Scott. He was a good sport and beat the drum and danced. Everyone took pictures to capture the moment so I'm sure there will be photos to pass on.

Things are going very well here. I love Japan. This is home. It's funny how that happens. I really love it here. I am thankful that the Lord has helped me adjust to everything around me. He has blessed my family---has helped me love everyone of these missionaries, helped me feel their hearts and see their qualities.

We have a very busy few weeks ahead of us with Thanksgiving, Sister's leadership training, traveling to the different branches and wards every Sunday, Elder Stevenson's visit to tour the mission, new missionaries coming and old missionaries leaving (transfers), and Christmas activities in the mission. When I was in Utah it use to take weeks to plan one event, now we're use to two or three events in a week. We clean up one activity to set up for another. I'm amazed how the Lord steps in and helps us keep going. He give us energy to keep everything together. It's an exciting time in our lives. We not only keep on the move, we see miracles almost everyday. Often the miracles we see are these young women and men become better and stronger---more mature and confident--both in themselves and in the Lord. This is amazing!

I give thanks to the Lord for all of you---for the influence you are in my life--- for your love and support.
Happy Thanksgiving.

Sister Baird, Bonnie, mom or grandma

Cultural tip of the month:
They are putting in a new fence and landscaping at the mission home. Right after the workers have a short lunch they all lay down in a row on the grass, cement or wherever and take a little nap. It makes me smile.
Well Ohayo gozaimasu everyone!

I can't believe that summer is two thirds over! I know that everyone always talks about how the best time in Japan is the Sakura (cherry blossom) season, and it is absolutely beautiful. But my personal favorite is summer. You will all think me crazy with the heat and humidity in Japan- but I love the mountains in the summer. Japan's mountains have so many deciduous trees that in the spring they aren't as full as the summer---- in the summer there is no standing room. They are all smooshed in there together like the Japanese on the trains at rush hour. All silent. All standing at attention. It is breath-taking.

I hope you are all doing well and you've had a summer full of sitting on the porch, sipping tall glasses of lemonade with your sunglasses on. After the cold, wet rainy/snowy, winter/spring you've had, you all deserve a little sunshine.

Important information, hair salon names: Hunky Dory Hair Room Manish Hair
It's been awhile since I've sent an email over the air waves or fiber optics or whatever they are. I have so many things to tell you about but I don't want this to be a 25 page letter so I'll just share a few.
Our mission is back to normal after sending the 54 Tokyo missionaries that were ours for awhile, back to the Tokyo mission. There were many tears in that departure. We had grown to know and love them.
I know many of you are worried about us all because of the earthquakes, nuclear problems, typhoons, and the beef radiation scare. I want you to know we feel very safe here. We know that the church has a crisis committee that keeps it's eye on what's going on in Japan as well as the rest of the places where missionaries are. If things get bad and it's dangerous for us to be here, we will be gone. Life is really normal here. Earthquakes are pretty common, we had one that woke us up last night and shook things pretty good, but the way Japan is built is amazing.

We've had the opportunity of having family here off and on the last few months and it's been wonderful. Together we've seen amazing places and they've met our incredible missionaries and seen them at work. Lonnie even had the opportunity of riding on the 'Women Only" train and it was an experience to remember. Sorry about that Lonnie. Your guide isn't very good at Japanese, even if that was posted really big in English. I tell you, I miss words I can read because I can't read anything 99% of the time.

Cydne and I had the opportunity to go with our Nagano District to Sendai and be part of the churches 'Helping Hands' project. The town we worked in was Rikuzentakata. 80% of the town was literally swept off the earth. Here is a website you can read more about it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rikuzentakata,_Iwate
It was a sobering experience to drive in that flattened town and see the piles of what was left. Acres of smashed cars. A levy with a chunk out of it the length of a football field. We were assigned first to what Cydne referred to as 'weeding the forest'. Then we cleared a dirt road. Our final project was to pick through the remains of a leveled house. We sorted glass, pieces of traditional blue roof tiles, inside tiles, wood, and personal belonging into piles--------pieces of peoples lives. We saw purses, children's toys, a smashed ipod, shoes, dishes. But the most unsettling were the photographs that were found. We wondered what had happened to those people. The horror they felt on that day. Everyone at that sight was silent. It might have just been the Japanese way, but I think it was because we felt we were working on sacred ground. I looked at the ocean, it seemed so calm and beautiful. I could only imagine and picture that tsunami pouring upon that village. As I stood on leveled ground, I wondered which route I would have taken to higher ground. I realized that even after that enormous earthquake there were still structures standing. That people had to go through streets to get to the mountains. Too many cars trying to get out. Impossible in 30 minutes. You'd have to ride a bike and even then to get to higher ground, getting through the streets would have been challenging. You would have had to climb through thick trees and up steep slopes. And what if you had children with you? One report in the paper said how bad the coroner had felt when he worked on the bodies of some of the victims. He said that many, in their flight, layered clothing-because it was cold and they wanted to take some of their belongings with them. Some had strapped bags to their bodies and their children's bodies, with items they didn't want to leave behind. It weighed them down, they could not run fast enough----and they were swallowed by the wave. It was a humbling feeling. I'm grateful to know that there is a peaceful, beautiful place on the other side. The comfort of a Heavenly Father and others that are there, that love us. I am grateful that my family is eternal. That I know we help and love each other here----as well as there. I love the comfort the gospel brings.

I wanted to tell you about an 85 year old women that Scott went to do her temple recommend interview with in Suwa. She was so cute (as is everything in Japan). She has two daughters that are both active members. She joined the church five years ago at age 80. They called her to teach primary-she accepted (at age 80!) She's taught over the last few years. When the primary started to memorize the articles of faith she decided she needed to do it with them. She can recite them all perfectly. How many of us can do that? She said that nightly, when she climbs into bed she starts to recite the first one and goes down the list. She said that they put her to sleep every night. What a wonderful thing to be doing just before you drift off. I think my dreams might be better doing that than wondering what I need to do the next day or what I didn't get done that day. She's such an inspiration to me.

Katheryn called me the other day and reported on her week at girls camp as a stake leader. She had the opportunity to go and serve as assistant craft lady. How fun is that? She told me that she had not been particularly excited to go to camp. What??? Can you imagine that???? (sadly I can--once I get there I love it!) She told me that she had emailed Whitney and told her her feelings. She knew Whitney could and would sympathize with her since every time camp was mentioned in their entire teenage life, Whitney sneered. She was totally shocked at Whitney's response. Whitney told her to quit whining, buck up and enjoy it. She said she was amazed that this was coming from the girl who literally tried to do everything in her power to not go to camp----she was actually very successful at 'camp avoidance' and I think maybe only went 2 years. Then Katheryn told me that as she bore her testimony around the ward campfire, she shared how much she admired her sister Whitney. Here she was a stranger in a strange land, speaking a strange language. Approaching people in a culture that it isn't the custom to approach strangers, sharing a message with them. A message that she believes with all her soul. A message that can bring peace, comfort and happiness. A message she hopes they can understand by her spirit, her eyes and her simple Japanese words. It's true everybody. Even as I tell you this, that warmth floods through my entire body. It's true.

Well I will sign off for now and I will try to be better at writing. Our missionaries would be in big trouble if they wrote home like I do.
This is an amazing opportunity. I see it transform lives, literally. It's not easy-----and it's amazing, fulfilling and rewarding. I love these missionaries and members. They do hard things and they are doing them with positive attitudes and unwavering faith. I want to grow up to be just like them.
I love you all.
Sister Baird, Bonnie, mom or grandma

Cultural tip of the week: Calendars here don't have names of months on them, in fact months don't have names. They are month 1, month 2, etc.
Good Afternoon everyone,

First I must appologize in advance for my poor writing form. My creative juices only flow from 7:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. However, I find myself with some time at the present so I'll seize the moment.

Hair Salon Names: 'Clip Clop' (no horsing around here) and 'Hair Make Antenna', (where your haircut will help people receive you betterSmile.)

I went to a Yakiniku restaurant the other night with Scott. I love Yakiniku. You have a little barbeque grill in the middle of the table and you cook meat and vegetables on it. Then you dip it in a sauce and eat it on top of rice. Yummy!! I ordered a salad with my meal. They brought my salad and I started to eat it. It was delicious! After a while I noticed the people at the next table had the same salad but the man was using smaller bowls to serve everyone at the table. I realized I was eating out of the bowl that was meant for several people. It was like you taking the salad at Olive Garden and eating right out of the big bowl. How embarrassing! I'm sure everyone was thinking, "Wow, those American's, they like things big!". It really wasn't that big, it was a salad like you get at Cafe Rio or Bajio. Just another cultural adventure in the life of Sister Baird.
A big shout out to Janna Holmes who paid to come visit me. Thank you! Thank you! I enjoyed every minute of it! I must say, it was very hard to see you leave. We enjoyed Japan's beautiful scenery, Mountain Villages, Takayama Festival Floats, Sakura (beautiful Sakura) and delicious food. I didn't take her to the Sushi-Ro I'll save that for next time. Of course Janna came serving the people of Sendai. She brought 2 huge suitcases full of coats and blankets that co-workers had donated. She had put them in space bags (bags you take all the air out). When we took them out of the bags, there were 3 huge black garage bags stuffed full. She dragged all of that through the airports and the Shinkansen, bless her heart. But that's nothing out of the ordinary for her, it's a daily thing. She's one of the most service oriented people I have ever met.
I just came down from a small birthday party upstairs in the office. Elder Kyotani who is from Tokyo and serving as one of our office elders, who has the biggest, most beautiful smile you've ever seen, turned 25 today. We learned yesterday that because his family is so big (9 children) that he has never had a birthday or Christmas present. His parents are wonderful parents but economic pressures haven't been good enough for that luxury. The A.P.'s decided he needed a present and a cake. We made a cake and got a few small things so he could unwrap a present or two. Yesterday was his P-Day (preparation day) it's the day they email and read email's from home. He told me that no one had emailed him. I told him to check later to see if they were just late---still no emails. The surprise birthday party the elder's planned was just what he needed. We love him so much it breaks all our hearts to think of sending him back to Tokyo. But I know it's coming---I can feel it.
We have become attached to all these Tokyo missionaries. They are wonderful and we love them. When they first got here it was quite an adjustment for a lot of them, but they went forward and worked hard. In our first meeting the night they came (43 of them), Scott opened up the meeting for questions. One elder asked in a very distressed voice, "Is this permanent?" Scott was inspired. He told them, "I will tell you what Joseph Smith told the Saints when they asked him that question. Build your houses, paint your fences, so if you do leave, you will leave a beautiful legacy behind." I am paraphrasing but that was the idea. I love the prophets. I love the wisdom they receive from God. Most of these Tokyo missionaries are doing exactly that, acting as if this is permanent---- they will leave a wonderful legacy behind---and a lasting impression on us.
We have had some good things happen as a result of the earthquake and tsunami. We have had several people show up to church because they need to find peace in their lives. They needed to know there was a purpose here. What would happen after death and what had happened before life. One 29 year old called his friend because he said he was the happiest, most at peace person he knew. He found out he was a member of the church. He found out where the closest church was and showed up at sacrament meeting. He was just baptized two weeks ago and confirmed this week.
Well Whitney is on her way to Japan!!! Could you hear her shouts when she got her travel plans? She's a little nervous because she's the travel leader for the 22 missionaries that are going to Kobe. Tokyo airport won't be a problem because there are not many there these days, but it's LA she worries about. These missionaries are like her brothers and sisters after 13 weeks. We will receive 22 missionaries as well on the 19th. 10 coming to Nagoya and 12 that are eventually headed to Tokyo. We always love getting new missionaries. That will bring our numbers to around 138.
I was in Suzuka a few Sunday's ago when we met a Korean man there. He is a new member. We visited with him and learned from the elders that he is married but that his wife doesn't show much interest in the church. I found out they have a little girl and were expecting a new baby very soon, a boy. I sent one of the blankets I croquet around the edges, to them. I got a sweet note back, here is a sentence from the letter:
.....frankly speaking last Sunday I got my first fast in my life [fasting on fast sunday]. As you know the last Sunday's lesson title was fast. So I thought maybe I can feel some of God's miracle. That's true. I could feel it. I could feel something grateful and something sacred. My body was so light and my mind was so clear. I couldn't feel any temptation.............I admire you and your family. How do you make your mind to come to this Japan? Deserting your job and leaving your friends? I am still the only church member in my house. One of my dream is to go to church holding my family's arm and spending our whole life for God's work. Please help me to be strong and teach me the God's word and show the way of God......
What a sweet thing, he wants to go to church together with his family holding their arms. I have to tell you the rest of the story--a few weeks after this letter his wife went to the doctor and he couldn't find a heart beat.. they baby had died. I'm grateful he has the peace the gospel brings, the knowledge that families can be together after this life. We will keep loving his wife and someday I pray she will understand the truth of the gospel and eternal families.

Ja mata ne, from the land of earthquakes, tsunami's and nuclear crisis---and we couldn't feel more safe.

Love you all,
Sister Baird, Bonnie, Mom or Grandma

Cultural tip of the week: Women take small blankets everywhere. To church, work, the bus, etc. When I get my hair cut my hair dresser puts a little blanket over me so I won't get cold. If you could experience the 'no central heating' thing, you would understand why they carry blankets around.
Hello from Nagoya!

I hear Utah has had its share of snow and cold this year. I hope you are all staying warm by the fire with your hot chocolate and snuggies. Snuggies here have an extra pouch attached in front with a hole so you can put your dog in it, you can stay warm together while it pokes it's little head out Smile. We haven't had much snow, at least none that sticks to long, but up in our north areas like Kanazawa, they have been pounded with the stuff. We have faithful missionaries that continue to work despite it all. They bundle up and climb on their bikes to weather the storms.

First, with some regret, I have to say, I have no new hair salon names. Don't fret, I will continue to look, it's become a fun past time of mine when we go anywhere.

I am happy to report that Whitney arrived safely to the MTC and she didn't even have to walk. Thanks family for taking over the duties so well! While she was here we went out and bought her bike for her mission. It was quite a trip. Scott was busy so he sent us with the Elders. It was great! Whitney's never had so many brothers. We found her a spiffy bike, basket, lock and helmet. She's set to travel the streets of Kobe! Just add her rain suit and she'll be good to go!

I know I have told you all about my language adventures in Japan, well here's the most current event. I went to mail a package for the Manning children. We have a thing going that if they read all the articles in the Friend and tell me about their favorite one, I mail them a little treat. I went to the post office and the woman at the desk was helping me fill out the form. Of course we were communicating in "sign language". I just wrote -candy and toys- where it asked for contents, she pointed to it made a few hand motions and some how I knew she was telling me I needed to be more specific. So she gave me a new form. Then she handed me this big laminated card that had pictures on it of different things that could be in the package so I would know how to identify the items. I saw one that looked like a party hat and crayons, so I pointed to that. Her eyes got wide and I looked at the picture again and realized that above it, it said 'Explosives'. I put my arms in a big cross like they do and started shaking my head. I thought, great, now the mail police will be here soon. She realized I had not understood and we both had a good laugh. Oh to be illiterate and mute!

When Whitney left she told me I had to go visit with the Sister's and Elder's on Mondays. She wanted me to go to lunch with them or something so I wouldn't get lonely. I think she was a little worried about me---I don't know why---maybe it's because every time she looked at me, I cried. Well last Saturday I had some of the sister's call. There are three together in one area and one of them was struggling a little and just needed to hear a mom's voice on the phone. I asked them if one p-day after they got all their cleaning, washing and emailing done (you really don't have to worry about that with the sister's, now the elder's-that's another story!) if they wanted to go to lunch with me. They said "Yes! This Monday will work." So there I had it, my first monday lunch date, just like Whitney told me to do. When the sisters found out I'd never been to the Sushi Ro that's where we went. What a cultural experience! I loved it! I never would have survived if I didn't have Japanese sisters with me. You sit at these tables that have a hot water spout (for drinking-yes, just hot water) then there is this conveyor belt that goes around and you take the little plates of food off of it that you want. It was AWESOME and so FUN! The only thing is it's very Japanese food. Big shrimp (Ebi) with huge eyeballs, you break off the head and as Ryoko says, "suck out the brains". I can't do that yet, maybe next time! I did eat more fish eggs which were very good. Undercooked, kind of slimy shrimp, all kinds of sushi (yummy) and a bunch of other things. If you're coming to Japan, we're going there, so gear your stomachs up! I've attached some pictures. Then the sisters wanted to take Pudies (pictures that are pretty funny) and eat some Mochie (sp) because I'd never had it. I really liked it! It was like stretchy marshmallow around ice cream balls. I had a great day, a real pick-me-up day. That just goes to show that parents need to listen to their children. Thanks Whitney!

Scott went out to Dendo (find people) with the Elders two days ago in Ueda. He got a bike. I worried about that. I told him we are of the age that it's good to go biking leisurely around the park with our hats, arm covers and such, but it's another thing to go out tracting with the Elders and try to keep up with them. He didn't believe me. He came into our hotel room later that night, and as he got into bed (12 inches from the ground) I thought he was 190 years old! He moaned and groaned. I asked him what in the world was the matter. He said "Nothing". I said "I can see that." He said,"I kind of crashed on my bike." Yes he'd crashed. He hurt his shoulder, arm and maybe has broken a couple of ribs. It hurts him when he laughs and he's been taking Ibuprofen every four hours--he NEVER takes anything. Well--at least he didn't tear his suit.

Well, enough of this trivial stuff. I need to tell you that the missionaries are wonderful! They work so very hard.
We had a very sad thing happen this last week. One of our missionaries brothers, died. They were only about 18 months apart. It was a tragic thing. We've worried about him. He's really been through some hard things. He struggled when he was younger and was kicked out of his house. He lived in his car for over a year until it was repossessed. Then he moved in with this brother, the one that just died. He decided he needed to straighten up his life. Then he decided to go on a mission. He worked hard spiritually and financially to get here. I thought this news would make him want to leave, but bless his heart----he's staying. He's been a rock. I so admire him. Like I say---we have amazing elders and sisters.

Elder Palmer (who is another Sugoi missionary!) is serving up in Nanao (way up north) He told us about Brother Okazaki there who rides his bicycle to church one hour each way to attend. The Elders teach Eikaiwa (English classes) in the evenings, once a week. Brother Okazaki wants to support the Elders in English class so he always attends. One week his bike was broken so he walked over two hours at night to still be there. These members are amazing.

In Nanao the Branch President is PresidentTeraguchi. The branch is so small that he conducted sacrament, blessed the sacrament, gave the opening prayer and taught Sunday School. These members are teaching me that I have nothing to complain about.
Every time we travel to different wards and branches I meet the investigators that are getting ready for baptism. It's such an amazing experience. To see how the gospel of Jesus Christ changes lives.

Thank you for all your emails. It's so wonderful to know there is still life going on across the ocean. I'm am heading off once again to Daiei, the great grocery store, another adventure. I'll feed 16 tomorrow for zone council. I love it. Feeding 16 Elder's is really more like feeding 30 people, but they love everything I make. Not that I'm a good cook, just that it's a mom who's cooking for them. They treat me with such love and respect, I love them.

Signing off,
Sister Baird, Bonnie, Mom or Grandma

Cultural tip of the week: We do not have garbage disposals in Japan. We have a little basket container in the drain that catches all the food. You put a little 'hair net' like thing in it and then throw the whole thing away. It drove me crazy at first, but it really is quite function-able. (I know this isn't dejavu, because I don't have that anymore--due to brain deterioration-- but it seems like I've already given this cultural tip, if I have, please forget my forgetfulness.)
Good Morning everyone!

Business first: Hair salon names, 'Bell Hair', 'God's Hair', and perhaps my favorite of all time---'Hair Make Lady Go'.

2010 ended in a big way with Katheryn and Micah's wedding. It was a wonderful day. Everything was beautiful. Thank you McKenzie for all your work! It was fun to be in Utah with family. I realized that I live in a completely different world in Japan. The people, the customs, the language, our schedule. It's like stepping through a door into a totally different life. Sort of like the cupboard in Narnia. I miss everyone at home, but when I was home, I missed everyone here. It's an interesting phenomenon.

The New Year is up and running for us as I know it is for everyone. We wish all of you a wonderful 2011!
We are carrying on at a very fast pace, as usual. The year started with missionary interviews and then specialized training for all the missionaries.
We have had Whitney here since the 22nd of December and we've enjoyed every minute of it. She'll go home on the 20th of this month and I really don't like to think about it. But what's most exciting for her is she will enter the MTC on January 26th. She has a little bit of the pre-mission jitters and there's been a little crying on this end from all three of us. Another new stage of life. You'd think I'd get use to these new stages wouldn't you? She is so excited to go, but all those things like leaving family, the language, being 5'9" in a 5'1" world, are a little disconcerting at times for her.

I know it doesn't seem like being tall in Japan should be a big deal does it? We went to the Suwa branch on Sunday. There were about 50 members. I think about 25 of them were in "Awe and Amazement" at her height! They all commented and then stood dumbfounded. The 14-15ish year old young women stood around her and did hand motions in front of their faces and screamed "Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa". She was brave and just smiled. Anywhere we go, people stop and stare and point. I got to thinking about this 'predicament'. Whitney all her life has tried to do her best to not be noticed-----the Lord wants her noticed. So He sent her to Japan where she will 'stand out'. She is not only tall--- she is beautiful. She knows her Savior, she loves Him. People will notice and pay attention, just what the Lord needs here in Japan. She's going to be a 'SUGOI' (awesome) missionary! I can't wait to get her emails!

Yesterday, January 11th was her birthday. Scott was doing specialized training. Whitney and I went to Nagoya station and had Tonkatsu (breaded pork cutlets), then we went to Komeda's where we had chocolate milk with ice in it and ice cream on top (sounds weird but it's very good!) and a pastry thing with syrup and ice cream on top. We ended the day with Krispy Kreme doughnuts and Domino's Pizza. Can I begin to tell you what my stomach felt like all night?

Scott had ordered pizza because no one else here could, a language thing, and we were waiting for it. (Footnote: Whitney and I had felt brave enough a few days before to go through the McDonalds drive thru......this sounds easy I know....but not when you don't speak the language. They couldn't understand my "Big-u-Mac-u, set-o". When we got to the window all the employees were laughing, and I'm not exaggerating, full out laughing, so we laughed with them. They had to show us pictures so they knew what we wanted. Seriously, this is my life!) Back to the birthday night---We were watching a DVD and waiting for the pizza when Scott came in and said that Whitney had visitors. We went into the living room. There were the very cute, amazing youth from our Meito ward. They were all kneeling on our L-shaped couches, perfectly quiet, with their backs toward us so we couldn't see their faces. They had gotten our honbu missionaries to participate. Then all together they turned around. It was so hysterically funny!!!!! They had taken pictures of Whitney off her Facebook page and made 'Whitney masks'. They each had a different 'Whitney face'. We laughed so hard. Then they sang a song for her. One of the girls can play the piano very well and we all sang Hymns together. It was so fun. They had made her this yummy gelatin, it looks like milk jell-o and it had mandarin oranges on it, sounds not so good, but it's really good. Last night when we went up to bed they had taken the masks and had decorated her door with them and had a "Happy Birthday" sign. They had made her feel so loved and happy. The youth in this ward are amazing! When I see them, I have great hope for the church in Japan.

January has been a month with maybe to much excitement: We had a missionary go MIA on us for a few hours, McKenzie and Craig's Kimball, has a severe tree nut allergy and will carry an Epi-pin for the rest of his life, Lindsay and Kris are waiting on tests to see if there are problems with the baby they are expecting in July. We realize we are not the only ones experiencing trials and challenges in our lives. They are all around us. I am so very grateful for the peace and comfort that comes from the knowledge that "everything will work out". It will all be fine, no matter what. I am grateful for the Atonement. He knows exactly how we feel. He's felt it all. "Have I not commanded ye? Be strong and of a good courage. Be not afraid neither be dismayed, for the Lord thy God is with thee withersoever thou goest." Joshua 1:9. I know He's aware, that He is with us wherever and through whatever we go.

We love you all. Thank you for your emails and your prayers. We feel your support and your love.

Sister Baird, Bonnie, mom or grandma

Cultural tip of the week: For Christmas, the three of us went to Harry Potter. Fun! The cost of a movie here is 1500 - 1800 yen per person, that's about $20 to $22 American dollars. When you buy your tickets they pull out a seating cart and you pick the seats you want. They also give a discount for senior couples (Fu Fu, my small Japanese vocabulary, but it means couple), which in Japan, is 50. It's made me feel a little old, however, they did ask to see our license, that made me feel a little better---maybe they thought we came disguised to look old. When you buy treats at the theater, of course they put it on a tray, they put everything on trays.
Wherever you go, when you are paying, they give you a small tray to put your money or credit card on, then they give it back to you with your receipt or change on it. This is a very important custom, nobody just hands money to one another, it's always done with the tray. Very cool!
Happy Thanksgiving to all!

I know you are all looking forward to having a wonderful feast on Thanksgiving Day and being with family and friends. We will be having a quiet little get together with the Honbu (mission home) staff. I ordered my turkey from Costco and a few other things so it will seem like the real McCoy. We've asked our missionaries to take time at lunch to have something nice to eat and to share with their companions, a particular time in their life when they were thankful for someone or something. We have also asked them to make it a day of service. We all have so much to be thankful for.


We have been in Osaka this past week for a Mission President's seminar for the North Asian Area; Japan, Korea and Micronesian Islands (Guam, Saipan etc.). It was beautiful! The leaves were stunning. We stayed in The New Otani hotel that is located on the river. We had a perfect view of the river, the skyline of Osaka and the Osaka Castle. It was probably one of the most beautiful views I've ever seen. We also visited Nara. Amazing! It has a huge Buddhist shine and park. The deer are all over. They walk right up to you. You buy these biscuits to feed them. I was so excited I bought 2 stacks of biscuits. Before I could get the edible tape off them, a whole herd had gathered around us! It was crazy! They started pulling at my skirt and Scott's jacket, nibbling on my legs. We were a spectacle! Not to mention we ended up with deer slim all over us. If you ever get to Japan, that's another 'must see'. It is out of our mission but very close to us.


Hair salon names! 'Hair Bless', 'Mustache' and 'Hair Pop'. I love Japan!


Our sweet Ryoko got baptized on the 14th of this month. She looked beautiful! She was so happy. It was fast and testimony meeting and she stood and bore a beautiful testimony of the truthfulness of the Gospel. I wish you could all meet her. I think she will come visit us in Utah some day. We love her and her mother, Megumi. Thank you again Sister Palmer for sending them to us. You are a good member missionary!


When we first got here and had the opportunity to speak in several of the wards and branches, I told them what I call the 'Ramona Story' (Ramona, I hope you don't mind, I think I cleared this with you before.) Ramona and I had met in the cal-du-sac one day, as we often did. It was January and we got to talking about our 2009 New Year's goals. We both, independently had set a goal to read the Book of Mormon four times that year. It was great to find someone doing the same thing I was. As we would meet, in the cul-de-sac again, we discovered we could read this book at least 6 times in one year if we read 10 pages a day. On other occasions through the year, when we would see each other we would talk about what we were reading and how we loved Nephi or Jacob or Alma, etc. In January of this year, 2010, Ramona called me and asked if I had reached my goal. I happily reported I had, and I had loved every minute of it. I had developed a relationship with those amazing people that fill it's pages and with the Lord. I asked her if she had finished and she had, not only reading it 6 times but 7! She said that she was thinking about it and thought "this has been the best year of my life". Then she thought, "Wait, this has been the hardest year of my life!" So many things had happened in the year that had been trying for their family. She told me that even though it had been the worst year of her life, it had also been the best. The Book of Mormon had buoyed her up and given her strength to meet the tests and trials of the year.

Last Saturday and Sunday we attended and spoke in the Nagano District Conference. Afterward a sweet sister from Matsumoto came up to me and said (through a translator) that when she had heard that story a few months ago she had decided to do the same thing. She felt she needed strength to withstand her trials, so she had began to read 10 pages in the Book of Mormon every day. She held the book to her chest and started to cry. She said she had almost finished her second time through. She told me what a difference reading 10 pages a day had made in her life. This I know to be total truth. It does make a difference. I watched Ryoko as she first started to read and didn't really understand anything except that Nephi forgave his brothers after all they had done to him, now, she understands more and more. She loves the things she's reading, all because she consistently does it everyday. The scriptures change lives.


Last night I was very tired. I stood at my kitchen counter a little overwhelmed. It has been a busy, busy month. Just in the last week we have had Mission President's conference which was wonderful. Then we had District Conference. A baptism (Sister Clark and Sister Wada's investigator, Sister Goto in Matsumoto). We have a couple of trips to wards planned. I am preparing for Sister's Conference next week and transfers the week after and getting ready to go home for a wedding. I had been to the dentist for the 5th and final time to finish a root canal. I had had a dream about home the night before and it was so real, it was like I was with all of you. I realized how much I missed everyone. How long it had been since I'd seen you all. I had put on Christmas music during the day to try to feel 'genki', but it wasn't the same without anyone here in the house. I haven't even thought about Christmas or had the same 'to do' list as normal. Elder Ishii had just called and asked us to speak in the Ise ward sacrament and do a fireside later that day. It was late and like I said before, I was tired. I was putting away a few things that were on the counter, among them, our family cookbook. I picked it up to put it away. I looked at the title. 'Baird Family Favorites'. I remembered the reason we picked that title. Our 'favorite' recipes. Many of our 'favorite' people's pictures are in there and each family's 'favorite' scripture. I opened it up. It opened to 'The Mark and Jaquelyn Standing Family'. I read their favorite scripture; "But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." Isaiah 40:31. It was as if the Lord had helped you help me. I turned to all your pictures and family scriptures and read each one. Finding strength from each verse. Thank you all for you support, for your strength. I love you all.


Sunday after Sister Goto had been baptized and we were waiting for her to come back in, we sang Christmas Hymns. I didn't have my English Hymn book and it's different when you aren't singing the words you know. I tried to sing in English, it's surprising how I can't recall the versus in English when everyone else is singing in Japanese. I looked up at the sweet sister leading the music, I looked around at others. I was overwhelmed with the love I felt for them. I thought to myself, how will I ever leave these people when our time is up? How can I bear that? I have grown to love them so dearly. Leaving will most likely mean, never seeing them again. I love these people. They are so kind and humble. This experience is so incredible.


I am thankful to all of you. I am thankful to the Lord for sending us to Japan.


Happy Thanksgiving.


Sister Baird, Bonnie, mom or grandma


Cultural tip of the week: Our beautiful little park is magnificent! People meet there at 6:00 - 6:30a.m. to do stretching. It is a cultural experience I love. In the evening around 4:00-6:00 people meet there with their dogs. It is so fun. They all go around, loving each others dogs. Those dogs should all be fat! They are constantly sharing treats with all the dogs. It's so fun. Just another thing on my 'I love Japan because....' list. I'm going to send pictures when I figure out how. There is this man with a small white dog with spiky hair. He paints a hot pink spot between it's ears, it's so stylish! I'm getting quite familiar with the dogs around here:)
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